* Don't assume they know your coming. Send them back the RSVP card...they want it and probably look forward to getting their mail everyday! So, just send it!
* No, you're not expected to send a gift if you decline the invitation. It would be nice though if the bride & groom are close friends.
* If you arrive at the church during the procession (try not to be late, but if you ARE...) you should wait until after the bride has walked down the isle before entering.
* If you are of a different faith, you are not required to participate in any religious rituals.
* You have to buy the couple a gift. It doesn't have to be super expensive, but you need to bring one and it should be something they can BOTH use.
* If your gift is coming through the mail, you do not have to also bring one to the reception.
* Guests pay for their own tranportation to the wedding as well as any lodging costs.
