As usual, The Knot makes some great points! They have a list of 'Top 10 Wedding Myths' that we just ADORED! So, here they are and here is what we think...
Myth #1 - Hiring friends is the same as hiring wedding vendors
That couldn't be more far from the truth. This is a wedding, not a house party and unless you have worked one before, you are not going to realize all of the things that come along with such an event. If you are trying to save money BE UPFRONT ABOUT IT. There is nothing wrong with saving money...we all are! If a vendor can't help you on your budget, they should be able to reccomend someone who can!
Myth #2 - You have to wear a white dress
Negative! We actually like the idea of NOT wearing white. Get on board with this trend so that one day you can show your kids and grandkids your wedding photos and they won't believe that people actually USED TO think you HAD to wear white.
Myth #3 - If you went to their wedding you have to invite them to yours
Everyone has different budgets for their wedding which will allow them to invite or not to invite people aside from immediate family.
Myth #4 - A wedding planner is too expensive
Many planners have "the hook up" with other wedding vendors and will know little tips and tricks to get your the results you want within your budget. You are in theory paying for an extra service but you get what you pay for and it will save your hours of unecessary stress and PLENTY of money in the long run!
Myth #5 - Going DIY will save you money
Initially when you think DIY you think about skipping out on overpriced items and making your own instead but in reality most of the time people resort to DIY because they WANT something that they cannot buy. Do your research before you start buying in bulk because it may save you time and money (and sanity) to just have a professional do your invitations and or floral.
Myth #6 - You have to have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen
Do not recruit extra people to be such a key part of your special day unless they are that special to you!
Myth #7 - You have to take out a second mortgage to pay for a wedding
Not true! If you have always had your heart set on certain things like your venue or your dress than go ahead and make your dreams come true. By making a list of must haves, then you can figure out how to save money on everything else. This should be your plan whether you are on a tight budget or not!
Myth #8 - A DJ will play too much cheesy music and a band will take too many breaks
Both can be avoided. You should be very clear on what you do and don't want your DJ to play. As for the band, maybe suggest taking breaks a member at a time or working the reception so that something else entertaining (besides dancing to the wonderful band) is occuring while they are on their break.
Myth #9 - Wedding food always tastes bad
ABSOLUTELY NOT! Both Puff N Stuff and Big City Catering have phenominal food! Check them out!
Myth #10 - All wedding dresses are created equal
Just like clothing or purses or SHOES...much of the time you will pay for better quality. That does not mean you HAVE to have a dress that costs a fortune to look good. Bridal salons can point you in the right direction as far as the most flattering dress shape and style for your body type and then it is up to you to shop around for a dress that is of the quality you expect in whatever your price range may be!
We hope you learned a thing or two from this cute little list :) We sure did!
Myth #1 - Hiring friends is the same as hiring wedding vendors
That couldn't be more far from the truth. This is a wedding, not a house party and unless you have worked one before, you are not going to realize all of the things that come along with such an event. If you are trying to save money BE UPFRONT ABOUT IT. There is nothing wrong with saving money...we all are! If a vendor can't help you on your budget, they should be able to reccomend someone who can!
Myth #2 - You have to wear a white dress
Negative! We actually like the idea of NOT wearing white. Get on board with this trend so that one day you can show your kids and grandkids your wedding photos and they won't believe that people actually USED TO think you HAD to wear white.
Myth #3 - If you went to their wedding you have to invite them to yours
Everyone has different budgets for their wedding which will allow them to invite or not to invite people aside from immediate family.
Myth #4 - A wedding planner is too expensive
Many planners have "the hook up" with other wedding vendors and will know little tips and tricks to get your the results you want within your budget. You are in theory paying for an extra service but you get what you pay for and it will save your hours of unecessary stress and PLENTY of money in the long run!
Myth #5 - Going DIY will save you money
Initially when you think DIY you think about skipping out on overpriced items and making your own instead but in reality most of the time people resort to DIY because they WANT something that they cannot buy. Do your research before you start buying in bulk because it may save you time and money (and sanity) to just have a professional do your invitations and or floral.
Myth #6 - You have to have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen
Do not recruit extra people to be such a key part of your special day unless they are that special to you!
Myth #7 - You have to take out a second mortgage to pay for a wedding
Not true! If you have always had your heart set on certain things like your venue or your dress than go ahead and make your dreams come true. By making a list of must haves, then you can figure out how to save money on everything else. This should be your plan whether you are on a tight budget or not!
Myth #8 - A DJ will play too much cheesy music and a band will take too many breaks
Both can be avoided. You should be very clear on what you do and don't want your DJ to play. As for the band, maybe suggest taking breaks a member at a time or working the reception so that something else entertaining (besides dancing to the wonderful band) is occuring while they are on their break.
Myth #9 - Wedding food always tastes bad
ABSOLUTELY NOT! Both Puff N Stuff and Big City Catering have phenominal food! Check them out!
Myth #10 - All wedding dresses are created equal
Just like clothing or purses or SHOES...much of the time you will pay for better quality. That does not mean you HAVE to have a dress that costs a fortune to look good. Bridal salons can point you in the right direction as far as the most flattering dress shape and style for your body type and then it is up to you to shop around for a dress that is of the quality you expect in whatever your price range may be!
We hope you learned a thing or two from this cute little list :) We sure did!
